texting her? ask The Guy first.

what is she really thinking? what do i do now? what went wrong? The Guy knows, and he tells it how it is.

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// what The Guy does

The Guy answers four questions.

what went wrong? she went quiet, or it went sideways. find out where it turned and whether you can still fix it.
what is she really thinking? "we should definitely do that sometime!" "let me check my calendar." "you're so sweet 馃槉" The Guy reads between the lines so you don't have to.
how am i coming across? draft before you send, and find out how she'll read it before you risk it.
what do i do now? she said yes, she went quiet, she sent a thumbs-up. find out your next move, and when to make it.

// how it works

three steps. that's it.

show him the conversation. a screenshot, or just type out what happened.
get the read. what she's thinking and where things stand.
know your next move. one clear answer. no list of options to agonize over.

// where it works

wherever you met her.

the apps and dating sites she has forty other men in her inbox. your messages blend in, the chat drags on, and she goes quiet before you ever meet.
intros from friends and family your sister passed along her number. now every text feels like it'll get back to both families, so you play it so safe she loses interest.
meeting in the real world it went great at the coffee shop. then you got her number, and now you don't know what to send.

// pricing

start free. pay when it's working.

The Guy

$9/week

  • what went wrong, and whether it's fixable
  • what she's really thinking
  • how you're coming across, before you send
  • what to do now
  • he remembers you
  • no limit on how long a conversation runs
  • up to 5 screenshots at a time
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The Guy, premium

$24/week

  • everything above
  • The Guy writes the text for you
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cancel anytime.

// your secret weapon

your secret weapon.

the women in your life too kind to tell you the truth.
chatgpt tells you what you want to hear.
The Guy what she's really thinking, what to do next, and why. nobody has to know you asked.

// questions

questions.

how is this different from chatgpt?

chatgpt gives bad dating advice, and it won't give it to you straight. it hedges, it plays it safe, and it tells you what you want to hear. The Guy tells you what's actually going on.

is this for me?

if you're back out there and texting feels like a foreign language, yes.

is it manipulative?

no. no tricks, no games, no red pill. The Guy doesn't change her. he gets you out of your own way.

does it work in other languages?

yes. it reads and replies in whatever language she writes in.

can i cancel?

yes. anytime, in one tap.

// last thing

know what to do before you hit send.

a match on the apps, someone you met in person, the one who went quiet. doesn't matter.

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no signup. no credit card.